Todd has been overseas for more than a week (see link in sidebar).
I used to put off doing fun things while he was away because 1.) I felt outnumbered and 2.) I didn't want him to miss out on things. Then I realized, *he's* overseas. We are the ones missing out! So, I should go ahead and do fun things. So this year my goal is to keep everyone as busy as possible.
Here's a sampling of what we've been up to:
17th: Airport. On the way home, stop at Borders to get free books. Old Navy, Wal-mart, AC Moore. Exhausted.
18th: Homeschool Co-op Year-end picnic, even though we didn't go to co-op this year. We will go next year. Good chance to make friends.
19th: Father's Day picnic at my sister's, since we already celebrated Father's Day and birthday with the other Grandpa on the 15th.
20th: We went to the beach with some friends in the afternoon.
21st: Stayed home to get some housework and paid work done. Should have waited a day... Soccer in evening.
22nd: Intended to go strawberry picking, rained out.
23rd Rained out. Orthodontist, Library. Went to soccer anyway!
24th Rained out. The Mayor went to a birthday movie with Grandpa.
25th Rained out.
26th: Birthday party for the Princess and the Mayor, NOT rained out despite ominous clouds. Thank you GOD!
This week: Rec basketball, Extra Tae Kwon Do, Library Summer Reading Kick-off party, physicals for 2, Overnight with friends for 2, Soccer, church. Week after: Mayor goes to camp, family picnic at Schroon (at least I think we are still on for this, even though B-I-L has a broken leg). The girls will start volunteering at the library, have volleyball camp, go to the ballet...and at the end of the week, The Girl has her Green Belt I test at Tae Kwon Do. Daddy comes home on a Monday.
Yep, I think I have succeeded in keeping us all busy for these three and a half weeks! It doesn't actually end there: we will have a very busy summer lined up with more weeks of camp, summer enrichment classes, and the math lessons that I have not let them stop doing. I finally stopped saying "we'd better not sign up for stuff because we don't know if we will be here..." Now I say, "If we leave, we leave, it's not that great of a loss to have spent $35 on rec programs." I'm letting myself and our kids invest in life here like we live here and are not just passing through. I hope I'm wrong. But for now, it's okay. Good, even.
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